As I am aware of many blogs and sites, I came across one of my daily sites and reckoned that there are still many woman who fake their orgasms. So a question immediatly comes to my mind: ‘Why?’
I can imagine that someone is feeling insecure about herself or her body and that can reflect in the communication between her and her partner. Makes me think:” One of the reasons why women fake orgasms is because he/she can’t make her come (easily or quickly enough). ”
When your partner can’t make you come, whether it’s in a one night stand or a relationship. It means that some communication is missing. Especially in the sex area. So if you are open, and can talk about sex, what you like, what your partner likes and so on, the sex will be, more likely, more exciting.
The other thing is, that women can feel really insecure about themselves or their bodies. In some cases it even involves sex with the lights off or sex with still some clothes on. Most of the women that feel insecure, really don’t know that their partner is really into her body. And that they really don’t look at the negative things that she thinks makes her feel insecure.
Most men just love their lady the way she is and looks and that is why they are either together.
If you feel insecure, please ask your partner (no female friends!) what they really like about you and your body. Let them toch the areas that you feel insecure about and try to feel his/hers soft touch, if you don’t like it, try telling what you would like and go explore your body with your partner. It might help!
Tell me, have you faked orgasms and why?
*still writing*
Kitty Writes 